After scrutinizing among the important people in my life and let some people next to the priority that I am not, I found one little problem of logistics indole. There are people joining me inrrompible loop and I can not ignore how much they want, at this stage of the process I went into shock and I decided to make a new listing. People who'll drop in band !!!!!!
- Nice slogan, I thought, very much in keeping with modern times.
scientific term for that phrase: "emotional detachment." But what is it roughly?, Well, emotional detachment is a term widely used among members of Al-Anon, meaning you'd stop worrying about what the other does. Not a cold away or hostile, it is not hopeless or resigned acceptance of everything that we want to send other people, or a break in our relationship, or live far away or absorbed in our own lives.
Ideally, detach to release us from a mental, emotional and physically, is getting rid of unhealthy and painful burden of a problem that is not in our hands to solve because each person is responsible for themselves and making . We allow others to not only stumble a thousand times with the same stone but crashed many times with a rock the size of an iceberg.
If we can not solve a problem we must learn to live with and in spite of it. It is completely is to ignore rather be slightly "the crazy kid" because you understand that if you want you can not solve.
detachment is why you ignore situations, attacks, words, looks. You can not control what the other does or says, but you can prevent this from affecting you're always so angry.
was a painful process to get to this part of my life? Yes, very.
why I give the option to detach from the rest of my band and let go on, I know that I am responsible for my things, my actions and my life every day try to improve in all aspects of who I am and that is why I deal with my actions and their consequences. The gestures of the other people do not affect me, the lack one who does not want to be at my side fills another person, is a perfect and wonderful cycle. I let you go in the band !!!!! could well be a theme song for Los Pepe.
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